Sunday, June 7, 2015

Harden up !!!


         

 

 

                                                                                       Edition 285 Monday June 8th 2015

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Hi,anyone that tells you parenting is a breeze is lying through their thinly veiled clenched teeth!

I was a willing(sort of) solo parent over the weekend as Christine attended Fire Brigade 4x4 training.

Willing soon gave way to weary as my fitness levels were seriously tested through a series of physical workouts at the pool,beach,bike park,trampoline and playground by our tireless son!

Crikey,I cant wait to get back to work for a rest…..Parents I salute you all….again ~!!!

Fletcher says; harden up Dad and work on your bmx track technique before next weekend bro!!

We managed a trip to Devonport(as frustratingly slow as getting there via road!)to visit Nana and Poppa.Home made pea and ham soup,ham and cheese toasted sandwhiches and date scones with lashings of butter and jam later we were feeling pretty damn good,life doesn’t get any better!

Log fires are the best and there is no substitute for free pinecones and pohutukawa gathered dog walking(multi tasking west coast style!).We are between firewood deliveries so the need to improvise has made us canny firewood hunters.Its amazing what you can cobble together when you need to!

I managed to divert some Fletcher energy into cleaning his Mums canine troop carrier after putting it off for months.We found plenty of stuff given up lost months ago under all the hair and sand!!

Yes it is the simple things shared with the people who matter most that are important in life!!

When I make the time and effort I am never disappointed in fact I glow and smile from ear to ear!!

I hope you had an equally satisfying and rewarding weekend with family and friends.Cheers Jonesey!

 

Harry and the Hendersons reckon a ute would be way cooler and cleaner than Mums car!

 

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“The best help we can offer the youth of today is to prepare them for tomorrow.”
Mark W. Boyer

 

I was lucky enough to be asked again this year to mentor a group of year 13 students.

Last years positive experience and outstanding result had me keen to assist again so I jumped in!

Like anything in life you can never assume anything for granted and so it has been with this years experience to date!!

Last year I was blessed with a team of young adults who gelled together amazingly well. They took their  Young Enterprise business to great heights nationally and two of them continue to operate the business as a going concern today!!

In complete contrast this years team has huge issues with leadership,commitment, personality clashes and cohesion.They are struggling to work together and to get their idea which is a good one off the ground.

Not only are they battling to get and stay on track I am finding it a real challenge of my ability personally to assist them through the many challenges they are facing.

I sure didn’t know how easy I had it last year that’s for real and I have to admit there are times I have felt like giving it away…….but what sort of mentor would I be if I did that!??(harden up bro).

So I have dug deep and drawn on every ounce of experience and knowledge I have accumulated to try to turn this ship around and navigate it successfully forward(O.A.R.).

It has been a good experience for me to have to listen and learn to guide these young adults to see and make their own decisions about the things they are doing/not doing that are blocking progress!

The turnaround has not been instant or rapid but we are making progress which is satisfying.

I am glad I decided to stand up and be counted as a mentor,something I will never regret doing!!!

 

In learning you will teach, and in teaching you will learn.” Phil Collins

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